We all faced that when we working our kids come and ask us
rather silly or stupid questions and thereby breaking our flow. In order to
avoid this we may either shut ourselves or reprimand our children for
disturbing. There is a big ramification on either of these approaches.
We all know that we are very busy with our work & life.
Sometimes it seems that 24 hours is not enough. Let’s us empathize our
children, contrary to us, they have lot of free time and want to share some
with us, their parents. If we don’t give our children time and attention they
deserve. They slowly distance themselves from us and find others who spend time
with them.
As the time passes we become old and our children starts
having family and their own life. As we grew older our responsibilities
decreases and we will have plenty of time on hand, whereas our children become
busy in their life. This is exactly opposite to what happened when our children
are young. Now we have time and our children are busy.
Will our children give us time and share with us. The answer
is plain NO. Due to our hectic schedule we didn’t spend time with our children,
so our children due to their hectic schedule will not spend time with us unless
we spend time with them when they are young.
If you want your children to give time for you when you are
old, give them some time now. Spend quality time with them when they are young.
This improves bonding and they will spend quality time with you when you are
old.
So be selfish and spend time with your children.
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